Time off?

My husband and I are really good at giving each other time off. He spends a day or afternoon doing what he wants and he gives me the same amount of time to do the same. Normally on his time off he drives to his Dad's farm to work outside, hunt or shoot guns. He enjoys getting out of the house to do some guy stuff. This past Monday he had eight hours of uninterrupted time to himself.

Today was my day to have some time off. He told me that I could do anything I wanted. But the problem is I have no idea what to do? Well I know what I would like to do but everything I enjoy costs money! I love to shop, get pedicures, messages, and eat out with friends, all that costs money. So if I can't do any of those things than what I would really love to do is stay at a quiet empty home and relax, sleep and have the freedom to do whatever I feel like doing. But it is extremely hard for me to stay home without being caught up with taking care of Cole. Even if I am in my room I can still hear him and I don't even have the freedom to wonder to the kitchen for a quick snack (my child is very attached to me and would cry and follow me back to my room, he is even known to bang on my door looking for me).

Each time my husband gives me "time off" and asks me what I want to do I have no idea what to say. I really just want time to spend at my house without having to provide for anyone's needs but my own. I guess I need to find a hobby that doesn't cost any money but I am not sure if that even exists!

Today my husband offered me the day off but I ended spending almost the entire day with him and Cole. We all went to breakfast and to Wal-Mart. I took a nap in the morning and spent two hours in bed while Cole took his afternoon nap. I feel like I completely wasted my opportunity to have some free time but I really had no idea what to do! Someone needs to open a place for Daddy's and kids to hang out so Mommy's can have the house to themselves. So frustrated...

-Tammi